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Don’t forget Father’s Day this Sunday, on June 19. We are suspending our Tannery Toolkit for Financial Independence series this week to take time out to honor our dads.
As you might suspect, our U. S. Father’s Day observance was signed into law in 1966, fifty-two years after Mother’s Day was established. The credit for inventing the celebration is usually given to Sonora Smart Dodd of Spokane, Washington. While listening to a Mother’s Day sermon in 1909, she felt that fathers needed to be equally recognized for raising children. Her own father raised six children alone after Sonora’s mother died in childbirth.
In honor of fathers everywhere, Tannery & Company took a brief survey of clients and friends to find out what the best advice they had ever received from their fathers:
Steve Bruneman, Attorney: I often talked with my dad about what I was going to do with my life. He didn’t say, “go to school” or “get a job.” He distinctly told me to find a profession. And I did!
Zack Tannery, President, Business Brokers Network (and my dad): My dad mostly led by example. He did not offer much direct advice, but in his own way he was a good teacher. However, he did make the following comments sometimes as I learned to drive. He was my primary driving teacher.
1. When we stopped at a STOP sign at a time when more cars than usually were passing by, it seemed like a very long wait for an opportunity to cross the street. At such times, my dad frequently stated, “Son, be patient! If you wait long enough, the traffic will all be past. If the traffic is not all past, then you did not wait long enough.”
2. When my dad observed another vehicle going faster than the speed limit, he often commented in a very calm voice: “That guy needed to leave home sooner.”
Steve Fuqua, CPA: I can hear him now! “When in doubt, always tell the truth. This is the best way to run your life.”
Lisa Zahn, Attorney: Wear tennis shoes (not flip-flops) when mowing the yard. Another piece of advice – let my clients make the decisions on the offers presented – it is their responsibility, not mine.
John Bitter, Veterinarian: Most of people’s worst problems are self induced—learn to work hard and make good decisions and your life will be all the better for it!
Joe Hockaday, CPA: A man is only as good as his word.
Matt Patchin, Director at Experian: If you think you can, you can. If you think you can’t, you’re right.
Chuck Riehm, SGI Corp: The harder you work, the luckier you get.
Got any great advice from your father you’d like to share this Father’s Day week?
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